I went from online shopping, to online dating. Isn't it amazing how far technology has come? Not only does chivalry not exist anymore, but it is impossible to run into a handsome man in the middle of rush hour and have all my belongings flying in the air, then we will both bend down to pick up my things, our eyes will lock, and the rest will be history! Okay, fine I watch way too many romantic comedies but a gal does need a break from the hectic world of dentistry every now and then.
I had a date a few days ago, an unsuccessful date. He was cute, successful, smart, and we had great conversation. Sounds like a good date right? I thought so too, until all of a sudden, a weird look appeared upon his face - like this date was the last place he wanted to be at that very moment. He excused himself to use the restroom and I just sat there trying to put the puzzle pieces together. He returned, and so did his look. I knew right then that I will not be hearing from him ever again.
That night as I was tossing in bed, I was replaying the entire night, I knew he found me attractive, he was flirting after all, and didn't rush to take me home. It must have been something I said. Or maybe my perfume was too strong for his liking? Or maybe my outfit was too much for him? Or maybe my heels intimidated him? Let's face it, he isn't the tallest man out there. I came to the conclusion that it is not me, it never is us, it's always them. Men find a great woman, lead her on, and never call again. It's like their cerebellum turns into jello when it comes to dating.
Is it that hard to say "Hey, it was great meeting you, but I am not interested? I'd rather take that then wonder the next day why he won't be calling! I don't know how much more alcohol my liver can handle to withstand these horrible dates but at least I'm not the one paying for these drinks =P
XOXO
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