One thing I love on a man are blue eyes (I'll settle for green too). I had another date over the weekend, and it went..well! (Yes, I did look confused while writing this because..let's face it, my dates never go well. Anyways, as you might have guessed, he did have blue eyes, eyes that make you feel at ease when you look into them and no, I didn't drink anything today, that was last night. Man, did I do a lot of drinking last night!
Okay, back to my date; let's call him Ray.
Ray got major points when he pulled up in front of my house, got out of the car to properly greet me, and open the passenger door for me. One of my pet peeves is a man lacking chivalry! It is VERY crucial for a man to properly greet himself, especially if it's a first date! I'm not sure how much more clear I can make this for all the men out there!!
Ray took me for desert and it was delicious! One great quality about Ray is his enthusiasm and positive outlook on pretty much anything. You don't come across people like that often. I really enjoyed his company, so when we went for a three hour walk after desert in thirty degree weather, I didn't mind.
Ray actually cared about what I had to say, most importantly he had interest in what I do! Not many people want to hear all the wonderful stories regarding dentistry, especially over cake. But I have a passion for it, so you better tolerate it!
The walk with Ray was..magical! Not only did we have the entire view of the city, but there were Christmas lights everywhere! Ray was very easy to get along with, he was charming and witty. And he made me laugh the entire night!
This date was nothing more then desert and good conversation, but to me it was a little more..
To me, this date was hope in a way. It made me believe that there is someone out there looking for me, that even though it didn't work out with my last relationship, something better will come along. It gave me hope to keep believing in fate and all of life's mysteries. Ray gave me butterflies to the point where I didn't want to say goodnight, I wanted to get back into the car and just keep driving and learn everything about Ray. And that is a huge deal for me.
I'm not getting any expectations considering it was only one date so far, but it was a date that kept me up most of the night replaying it in my head. When someone leaves an impression like that, you take a leap of fate regardless how scared you are to get hurt again, to let someone new in your life and not know how it will turn out. To open up to someone new and make memories with them. We can only take it one day at a time and make the best of it!
XOXO
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